Lesson 12 ~ Emotions
How much do you allow emotions to rule over you? Do you control your emotions, or do your emotions control you? Think about the fruit of the Spirit as listed in Galatians 5:22: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness and self-control. How many of these are emotional?
Do you dwell more in happiness, or heartache? While we will all experience happiness and heartache in this life, can we choose to handle both with an inward joy that reveals the hope that is within us? Isn't that what Proverbs 10:28 conveys? That the righteous (and we know that we only can claim to be righteous through the blood of Jesus) have a hope that brings joy!
Self-control. No matter what our excuses (work issues, family issues, the ever-present alibi for women of all ages---hormones!), we are to be people in control of our emotions. If we are allowing His Spirit to control us, then we shouldn't "lose it" without feeling remorse and repentance.
Do we live in contentment or envy? When we find ourselves in a state of nagging malcontent, feeling envious of others and their successes, we need to remember Solomon's words to the wise in Proverbs 19:23...we are to rest in satisfaction knowing that God has promised those who fear Him life eternal and life complete. And we certainly should never envy those who are living in opposition to God, even when it looks like they are succeeding. When we are tempted to fall into this trap, reread Proverbs 24:19-20. We have to put on our re-born eyes and look at things not as the world sees, but with eternal vision. Live in Hebrews 13:5 mode, "Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, 'Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.'”
What more do we need? What more should we ever want?
Patience or Anger? Jealousy? I believe when we feel any of our emotions swinging out of control it's time for a heart examination. Where have we gotten out of balance and where are we not allowing God's Spirit to direct our hearts? We know what God asks of us and Solomon reminds us of all the benefits of living in a godly emotional state.
Lesson 13 ~ Wealth & Poverty
This was a strong lesson for me...I think I needed to hear God's exhortations to hear the cries of the poor right now. It is easy in our society to grow callous to all the needs that we hear of, to feel that "someone" is taking care of everyone, or that there is a "program" out there to help those who find themselves in need. But God asks us to not grow callous...to hear...to respond. As I mentioned in our review of Chapter 21, Proverbs 21:13 really caught my attention, "Whoever shuts their ears to the cry of the poor will also cry out and not be answered." Well, that should catch our attention, shouldn't it?
I think this lesson did a very good job of pointing out, to the chagrin of prosperity theologians everywhere, that God does not promise prosperity to all, and that prosperity does not necessarily reflect God's favor just as poverty does not necessarily reflect God's disfavor. There are definitely things we can do to enhance our financial status, and Solomon tells us what they are: hard work, diligence, not going into debt, planning ahead...but none of those guaranty prosperity. The same attributes should help us avoid poverty, but don't guaranty us that poverty will not come. Bottom line, I believe, is that God doesn't want us focused on our financial state. Do our best, work hard and honor God, no matter what our state. We are sure warned not to fall into the trap of wanting more and more and never achieving satisfaction with what we have.
The verses in 30:7-9 remind us that if we are rich, we should guard ourselves against pridefulness, attributing our success to ourselves and forgetting our dependence on God; and if we are poor, then we should guard ourselves against taking what is not ours and bringing disgrace to the name of our God. Paraphrasing Paul, "in whatever state we find ourselves, we should live a life of contentment", knowing that all good gifts come from God, that everything we have/see/touch is temporary and useful only in this earthly life, and that if others have more than we do, so be it. Greed should have no room in our life, stinginess no part. If we have enough to help someone in need, then we should hear their cry and help. The cries that we hear may be entirely different than someone else hears...we are responsible only to respond to the cries that God directs to our ears. And let us not ignore those cries!
How much do you allow emotions to rule over you? Do you control your emotions, or do your emotions control you? Think about the fruit of the Spirit as listed in Galatians 5:22: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness and self-control. How many of these are emotional?
Do you dwell more in happiness, or heartache? While we will all experience happiness and heartache in this life, can we choose to handle both with an inward joy that reveals the hope that is within us? Isn't that what Proverbs 10:28 conveys? That the righteous (and we know that we only can claim to be righteous through the blood of Jesus) have a hope that brings joy!
Self-control. No matter what our excuses (work issues, family issues, the ever-present alibi for women of all ages---hormones!), we are to be people in control of our emotions. If we are allowing His Spirit to control us, then we shouldn't "lose it" without feeling remorse and repentance.
Do we live in contentment or envy? When we find ourselves in a state of nagging malcontent, feeling envious of others and their successes, we need to remember Solomon's words to the wise in Proverbs 19:23...we are to rest in satisfaction knowing that God has promised those who fear Him life eternal and life complete. And we certainly should never envy those who are living in opposition to God, even when it looks like they are succeeding. When we are tempted to fall into this trap, reread Proverbs 24:19-20. We have to put on our re-born eyes and look at things not as the world sees, but with eternal vision. Live in Hebrews 13:5 mode, "Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, 'Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.'”
What more do we need? What more should we ever want?
Patience or Anger? Jealousy? I believe when we feel any of our emotions swinging out of control it's time for a heart examination. Where have we gotten out of balance and where are we not allowing God's Spirit to direct our hearts? We know what God asks of us and Solomon reminds us of all the benefits of living in a godly emotional state.
Lesson 13 ~ Wealth & Poverty
This was a strong lesson for me...I think I needed to hear God's exhortations to hear the cries of the poor right now. It is easy in our society to grow callous to all the needs that we hear of, to feel that "someone" is taking care of everyone, or that there is a "program" out there to help those who find themselves in need. But God asks us to not grow callous...to hear...to respond. As I mentioned in our review of Chapter 21, Proverbs 21:13 really caught my attention, "Whoever shuts their ears to the cry of the poor will also cry out and not be answered." Well, that should catch our attention, shouldn't it?
I think this lesson did a very good job of pointing out, to the chagrin of prosperity theologians everywhere, that God does not promise prosperity to all, and that prosperity does not necessarily reflect God's favor just as poverty does not necessarily reflect God's disfavor. There are definitely things we can do to enhance our financial status, and Solomon tells us what they are: hard work, diligence, not going into debt, planning ahead...but none of those guaranty prosperity. The same attributes should help us avoid poverty, but don't guaranty us that poverty will not come. Bottom line, I believe, is that God doesn't want us focused on our financial state. Do our best, work hard and honor God, no matter what our state. We are sure warned not to fall into the trap of wanting more and more and never achieving satisfaction with what we have.
The verses in 30:7-9 remind us that if we are rich, we should guard ourselves against pridefulness, attributing our success to ourselves and forgetting our dependence on God; and if we are poor, then we should guard ourselves against taking what is not ours and bringing disgrace to the name of our God. Paraphrasing Paul, "in whatever state we find ourselves, we should live a life of contentment", knowing that all good gifts come from God, that everything we have/see/touch is temporary and useful only in this earthly life, and that if others have more than we do, so be it. Greed should have no room in our life, stinginess no part. If we have enough to help someone in need, then we should hear their cry and help. The cries that we hear may be entirely different than someone else hears...we are responsible only to respond to the cries that God directs to our ears. And let us not ignore those cries!